Spider wrote:DaveWammbarro wrote:Spider wrote:A gift is a private matter. Or it should be. When you give a gift, it shouldn't be announced publicly unless you really gave it with the intent of self promotion.
Way to drop the serious bomb...!
I think it's great and if someone wants to share it, fine...this is the internet after all. People put everything on here...
I know my comment sounds harsh. There's a reason...
Last year in the Joes gear section there was a guy who at a show gave Joe a strat style guitar he made. This guy kept asking for Joe's approval of the so called "gift". This guy desperately wanted Joes approval of said gift as he sells S & T style guitars on fleabay. Search using "Bonamassa" under title and description on ebay and you'll see what I mean. or go here, http://cgi.ebay.com/Relic-Stratocaster- … 43a3edf569
His current auctions state he's built guitars for Joe and other celebrities. Now if Joe had made a comment about said guitar on said thread, I'm sure this guy would have used that also in his auction descriptions. When I called the guy on what he was doing, the thread remarkably disappeared. hmmmm......
I now see there's a woman from Melbourne Florida on fleabay selling guitar shrouds. If Joe states his approval would that comment be quoted to promote a ebay auction? I hope I'm wrong!!
I highly disapprove of people using unapproved celebrity names to promote their wares. Specifically Joe's name. Call me protective. And...yes, to me a gift is personal and should remain as such.
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Hey Spider,
I typically only like to read comments and I prefer not to leave messages or sign up for this junk.......but YOU have me signing up for this, I can't stand it any more.
After reading all the comments and doing some research myself......I have come to the conclusion that YOU - mr spider are promoting this woman (Questions - are you related to her? and why would YOU mention anything about ebay?), it appears that you have more interest in promoting her than she has in promoting herself?? wtf - WHY ARE YOU MAKING SUCH A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT??? Are you upset that someone else had a good time besides you? Talk about the Grinch that stole Christmas, way to go mr spider!!!!
If she does make and sell these things.....SO WHAT. Based on what YOU wrote, I went to ebay and looked these things up, assuming this is the same person, there is not one item that is related to Joe, so there you go promoting her and you are assuming and speculating that she is trying to make something from his name. There is not one shread of evidence that indicates this was her intent. [off topic: In fact, I think they are cool, thanks mr spider for the information, I might have to have one for my Les Paul].
The pictures she has posted in this topic were from a request by bill (a Joe B fan club member), as far as I can tell none of the photos are of the actual gift. So it's no different than someone having him sign an 8x10 photo and posting a picture of the event, in fact, it's more likely you'll see the signed 8x10 on ebay.
And while I'm at it....I would like to know who appointed you the "gift nazi", if this woman wants to give Joe a gift for whatever reason it's her business, NOT YOURS!! You speak of intentions, unless you are related to her......you would have no idea what her intention was....so don't assume and speculate anything. We're all presumed innocent until proven guilty.
She (bonniemost) has NOT once mentioned anything other than what a great experience she had and what a pleasant person Joe was. She only wants to know if he liked the gift!!!!! How else would someone get ahold of Joe, other than this forum?
I love the story and I love the pictures....THANK YOU FOR SHARING. To bonniemost, not once have you "self-promoted" and I commend you for that!!!!! You easily could have and you chose not to. It is mr spider who is doing all the promoting. Don't let mr spider ruin your experience and don't get drawn into the "web of response" like I did to mr spider, YOU don't need to explain yourself to anyone.
Here is what I see:
1) you gave Joe a gift and want to know if he liked it
2) you got a picture and autograph with Joe
GOOD FOR YOU - I AM VERY HAPPY FOR YOU and what a cool experience, maybe someday I'll get to meet him!!!! And you know what, I hope you hear from Joe himself and I hope he LOVES your gift and tells everyone that he does.
Peace,
LedZepp
Glens Falls, NY